The Jie Dilian love pattern increasingly increased, the survey shows that Taiwan has talked to 36 percent of the workers the Jie Dilian, but more and more people could accept the "female male" Jie Dilian. Some people even claimed, the Jie Dilian is sex and love in the physiological and psychological perfection.
Jie Dilian contribute to sexual harmony
Nowadays, Jie Dilian love pattern increasingly increased, the survey shows that 36% of office workers talked Jiedi Lian, and there are more and more people could accept the "female big men small the Jie Dilian of. Some people even claimed, the Jie Dilian is sex and love in the physiological and psychological perfection. However, the sunflower counselors Hu careful, say, between husband and wife to achieve harmony, the main factor is not so much age, whether it is traditional
Male and female small, or increasingly multiply the Max Planck Institute, between husband and wife need to maintain a balance. In addition to the requirements, as well as psychological and spiritual needs.
"A woman likes to be needed" is the psychological basis
From the general phenomenon of love, women, especially girls, will love greater than themselves, men, because in such a relationship, a woman is very easy to find being taken care of, the feeling of being loved. But nothing is absolute, with the social roles of women are more independent, and the autonomy of female mate choice is also growing, Jiedi Lian has become a new trend: Jie Dilian women showed more mature, more worthy to rely on.
Careful, Hu the Jie Dilian and traditional male and female love is completely different, it has an obvious feature: male Oedipus complex, and the reason why women find a small man in love is to want to get the feeling of a need, especially women, who once did not need to even be ignored heavier its Jie Dilian psychological. Like when a man of the Oedipus complex with a "need" a woman hit, both sides feel so Jiedi Lian success.
The Jie Dilian have a physiological basis
As the saying goes, "woman thirty wolf 40 such as the tiger," the pinnacle of men sexuality in the 20-30 years old, just from the sex life in terms of, at some stage, Jie Dilian this with the men and women in sex to achieve a fit.
The 32-year-old Miss Yang to talk to the counselors: I do not understand, himself, had a 9-year-old colleague in love. A year ago, the Office points to a college student, he liked to chat with me once, took the confession to me, I also like the sunshine. On one occasion, we travel together, he went to my room to chat, then stay there did not go. That night, I really tasted the taste of Being a woman. Since then, I can not do without him. Originally, the husband I have feelings, respect me, but we have a very long time no sex life. He worked very hard, the pressure is relatively large, and once without success, after he no longer dared to try.
Hu Shen said, indeed, in a period of time, Jie Dilian a combination of both sexes will reach sexual physiological and psychological fit, but this fit in its longevity? Man sexuality after the age of 30 began to decline, mainly due to work pressure. Men to withstand the various pressures will be a significant drain on the energy of the man, in front of women, many men in the sexual aspects of it will certainly appeared to be inadequate.
In the age of marriage is not the most important
In physiological terms, the 30-year-old men and women in the physiological ability to become less fit.
This is illustrated between the sexes inevitable because of step leading to marital disharmony? In addition to the requirements, as well as psychological and spiritual needs careful, If sex can not be met, there are other aspects can be met, the relationship between husband and wife can still find a balance. But now, many people failed marriage attributed to disharmony, in fact, lead to the disintegration of the family more often than not by itself. For example, a male suffering from ED, can not meet his wife, he would have low self-esteem, inferiority complex behind great offensive, such as groundless suspicion of his wife. Last forced the causes of the disintegration of family and marriage is often not per se, but mistrust.
Therefore, sexually active women of all ages to correctly perceive their needs to avoid in terms of her husband to feel the pressure.
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